M. J. Maddox, PhD is the American English Doctor.  
 

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Cap and Gown Graduation for Kindergarten is Absurd

My six-year-old granddaughter just graduated from Kindergarten. The children wore blue mortar boards and academic gowns and received rolled diplomas. They marched to a syncopated song called “I love my ABCs.” Some of the children moved to the beat, dancing in their little flip-flops. It was all very cute and the parents were snapping pictures like crazy. But it was a totally inappropriate way for five and six year olds to end their first year of school.

Kindergarten graduation may be cute, but it is excessively premature. An end-of-year party with cookies and punch would surely be enough to please the little ones. If a program is desired, let them recite poems or demonstrate math skills. If dressing up is wanted, let them dress up as characters from the books they’ve read or had read to them. Mortar boards and gowns belong to the university. Using them for high school graduation is questionable, but at least students completing the twelfth grade have–one hopes–learned considerably more than the alphabet.

Graduation events for grades below the final year of high school should be seen for what they are: a commercial opportunity for manufacturers and photographers, and a manifestation of the grade inflation that infects the U.S. educational system at every level.

Americans complain regularly about the low academic standards in U.S. schools, yet U.S. parents and school personnel devalue the learning process out of a well-intentioned but misguided desire to “make children feel good about themselves.” The operative word here is “make.”

A sense of self-worth cannot be bestowed from without. Presenting every Little Leaguer with a trophy, regardless of achievement, serves only to devalue the trophy. Presenting every child with academic honors, regardless of achievement, devalues education.

Children are not stupid. It does not take them long to figure out that “trophies for everyone” means that no one has to try very hard at anything. The lucky ones have adults in their lives who counteract the effects of public education by setting standards that reward achievement and self-discipline. The unlucky ones grow up self-centered, partially-educated, and angry at a world outside school that doesn’t reward them for simply being themselves.

9 comments to Cap and Gown Graduation for Kindergarten is Absurd

  • CJ,
    I had reason to recall this post recently when social media and even “genuine” news sources featured a story about a boy “graduating” from middle school. Dressed in cap and gown, backed by a row of seated faculty, he gave impersonations of three presidential candidates. His performance was well done and amusing, but it would have been far more appropriate as an act in an end-of-school talent show. Small wonder that by the time students get to high school graduation they talk throughout the ceremony.

  • CJ

    I can’t agree more. First of all kindergarten is not a graduation. We all expect our kids to FINISH kindergarten. Otherwise then your kids needs help beyond the norm.
    As an employer, I can’t even imagine in the real world someone telling me I graduated kindergarten, here is my ABC diploma. Oh my.
    It is utterly ridiculous that cap and gowns are used in any grade level besides the one that counts and actually give you a degree to present to your future employers or colleges.
    Parties okay, end of the year celebration okay but cap and gown for kindergarten, how absurd.

  • @Anonymous,
    There is certainly an echo of my post in the paragraph that begins “Children aren’t stupid.”

  • Anonymous

    http://differentthanaverage.blogspot.com/2015/04/rewarding-mediocrity-why-preschool.html

    Sounds like someone else reads your article and regurgitates it!

  • Lori,
    I’m sorry that your comment was lost.

    I get a lot of comment spam and go through carefully, looking for genuine comments that are related to the articles they’re attached to. I may have deleted yours accidentally. Please forgive me. I really value readers’ comments.

  • Christina

    Wow. Such hate. In a world where there’s so much unhappiness & sadness, what does a little celebration matter? If you think a cap & gown are symbolic, what a waste. Seriously. It’s a rite of passage. Your cap & gown are lovely parting gifts of your last few years of academia, not to mention symbols of the debt that most students find themselves in. Your arrogance is laughable. The emotional attachment that you seem to have to some cheap fabric & cardboard is equally pathetic. I am that parent that will shell out $50 so my son can play dress up for his kinder graduation. Not for commercialism, not because I’m a lemming but because it is an important milestone for him & I honor this transition in his life. No, I don’t buy into the philosophy that everyone should get a trophy for showing up, but I know all to well that tomorrow is not guaranteed and I will unapologetically find any & EVERY reason to celebrate with my children. If for no other reason than to make memories. You guys rain on someone else’s parade, my little whippersnapper & I will not only be enjoying his kinder grad, but we’ll be hanging a superhero from the tassel. (PS: I skipped all my grad ceremonies. I didn’t need the validation & no, I didn’t hang my degrees either.)

  • Comadrona

    Thank goodness…I though I was the only person in the world who thinks that this “tradition” is ridiculous!As a mature-age student who graduated from two universities and wore my mortar board and gown with pride, it offends me that some tiny whippersnapper can cheapen the whole tradition at a kindergarten, or even high school, graduation. These kids simply have not yet put in the hard yards. They have done what we all did – progressed through the school system. Graduating from university means you have gone the extra mile in terms of effort and output. Moreover, the kids have no idea about the centuries-old history behind the graduation dress and, probably, couldn’t care less. Wish we could put a stop to it, but too many parents seem to think their kids deserve it!

  • Lori

    I’m curious. I left a comment here a couple of days ago, and now it is gone. Was it not worthy of publication? I read your column; I acutally subscribe to it. My comment was a memory of my own children’s kindergarten grauation ceremony, in which no caps and gowns were worn. Did I not follow some necessary protocol for commenting? If so, I’d like to know what I did wrong, and I will correct it when leaving any future comment.

  • Christopher

    In a world where conformity has become a ‘chosen-must’, it is conducive to propagation of further conformity that those being conformed must be made to feel good about themselves. In the former ages, when the world’s pop. was a fraction of what it is now, there was, relatively, more genius than we have now. Giving accolades for nothing special will help continue this trend. But at least they will be happy, and thus, will not upset the status quo; which is important,if we are to keep the public at peace. … Don’t you think?

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